It’s a wow-moment that your family has received an invitation for a first meeting with the family of your prospective would-be. It is time to prepare for the meeting. By this time, it is believed that the biodata and photos of the bride and groom have already been exchanged among the families. Seems like the families have agreed to take the proposal to the next level.
Your First Meeting
The first meeting of families to discuss a matrimonial alliance is a significant event for both aspirants and their families. It is a time when families come together to discuss the possibility of marriage between their children and to evaluate whether the potential match is the most suitable one. This tradition has been practiced in almost all cultures in an arranged marriage. It is a common practice that the girl’s family invites the boy with his parents and elders to their place.
The Boy
While it is essential to present yourself in a decent
attire, The attire and your dressing sense is your first impression. Your
behavior and body language are surely observed by the members of the other
side. The way you speak, you eat, and drink is surely observed. At this moment,
try to be yourself as being yourself is the easiest way of representing
yourself in a true manner. Avoid enacting differently for the sake of
impressing the other party. Your true self is the best of yourself.
The Girl
For the Girl, It is your day to present yourself in the best appearance. It is solely your choice to select the dress you want to wear. At times parents may try to influence the girl to wear the dress of their choice. However it should be your decision of choice. Select the best dress from your collection which you think is the most appropriate for this occasion. Do not wear very heavy make-up that is out of your practice. Your attire and make-up must give you a comfortable feeling in front of the boy and his family. Make sure not to enact differently and be yourself throughout.
The Parents
There are several steps that can be taken to ensure that the first meeting of families to discuss a matrimonial alliance is ethical and respectful. First and foremost, both families should be treated with respect and dignity, and be given the opportunity to express their thoughts and feelings. Additionally, parents and elders should allow the couple to get to know each other and make their own decisions about whether they want to move ahead for the marriage.
Both families must ensure the importance of informed consent. It is essential that both families involved in the proposed marriage have a clear understanding of what they are getting into and can make an informed decision. They must be free to ask questions, express their concerns, and have the freedom to say no without any fear.
Finally, it is important to accept that the decision to marry is a merely personal one. It is essential for the couple to remember that eventually the decision to marry should be based on love, mutual respect, and a shared desire to build a life together.
Conclusion
In conclusion, the first meeting of families to discuss a matrimonial alliance is a significant event that should involve care and respect. Such meetings cater positive outcomes by ensuring few aspects such as reaching mutual consent, respecting cultural diversity, commitment to gender equality, showing transparency on social and financial status.